March 08, 2001 - Keeping hometown history aliveSuffolk Times • March 8, 2001
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A 1926 photo of the Skunk Lane farm where both Mabel Richmond and Barbara grew up,
showing Barbara's father with his cows and Ford truck.
1 HIS WILL BE THE LAST OF THE
series on the past we have enjoyed
sharing with you. Among the many
people we heard from, Barbara got
letters from two of her parents' secre-
taries. Ruth Myers lives in Mattituck
now but lived right alongside the East
Cutchogue
School when she Focus
was a student
there. Lilian Kent ON THE
Nine, originally PAST
from New Suffolk
and now in by Paul
Florida, was with and Barbara
the Silleck Stoutenburgh
Agency when it
made the move from the little build-
ing into the bigger Honeymoon
Cottage. She brought to mind some
folks lots of you will remember:
"Raymond Tuthill, who was manager
of the North Fork Bank, and Edie
Guy and Rose DePetris, who were
tellers at that time." She mentioned
also that Eleanor Zaneski worked at
the liquor store that Jack Levin ran
on the other side of the little office.
One day a small envelope arrived
from Brooks, Maine. It said "Tuthill"
on the return address. Barbara said,
"That's got to be Bobby Tuthill, who I
went to East Cutchogue School with
back in the '30s and '40s. He lived on
the corner of the Main Road and
Bridge Lane. In those days we would
sort of pick up everyone on the way
to school and he and Dick MacNish
would join us as we passed by. The
Tuthills had a big horse chestnut tree
in the front yard with its beautiful
huge blossoms, and then the nuts to
follow. We would always have to pick
up a few of those beautiful, shiny,
brown nuts and carry them to school
in our pockets."
Barbara continues, "When we were
young our parents taught us not to
take rides from strangers. `Be careful
if someone stops and offers you some
candy,' etc., they would say. I can
remember walkinp- home from school
not see it here. Oh well, that's life
(excuse the pun). If anyone is inter-
ested in getting a look at the photo,
along with the article on Alistair
Cooke, who summers on Nassau
Point, it will be available at the
Cutchogue library (see Bev
Christianson).
Most of us in the area remember
the incident because not many things
with someone when a
car pulled up alongside the
of us. They probably me
wanted to ask direc- ber
tions but I was near the
Bobby Tuthill's house { {H
at the time and I was an
ready to head for it in a sto
hurry if I suspected of
something funny!" thr
Along with his letter min
Bobby included a copy &
of a 1952 article from 1,3
Life magazine that Sec
showed Alistair Cooke min
reading the newspaper land
on the front porch of tells
Mabel Richmond's wor
store. Bob said, "I was f P
home on leave from the B
Navy and somebody Rob
took the picture for Ro
Alistair Cooke. In the Life
picture are Wilson Life
Tuthill, Adam Doroski, Ma
Adam Zaveski, me and
Alistair Cooke. A lot of
memories of
Richmond's Store, carrying the mail,
solving all the world's problems
around the stove." The letter was
signed from "An Old East
Cutchoguer." Thanks, Bob, for the
photo and letter.
We tried to get hold of a copy of
the Life magazine, and Bev
Christianson at the: Cutchogue library
worked all the angles she could to
find the Aug. 25, 1952, issue. It could
be found on the Internet, but the
prices seemed a little high. One night
we received a call from Chris Palmer
in Phoenix, Ariz., saying yes, he and
his wife were in the business of sellin!
old Life magazines and yes, they had
the one we wanted for $15.80. Great,
we thought!
But wait a minute. Suffolk Times
editor Jeff Miller figured he'd better
check first and unfortunately, Life
wanted such an exorbitant price to
publish the 1952 photo that you will
that happened way out here on
East End. Though Barbara tells
that during the war she remem-
s getting a call from her mother in
office of the village saying,
urry up! She's coming through!"
d she and her sister ran to Mabel's
re as Kate Smith, in the back seat
a big, fancy, black car, drove
ough on her way to christen a
esweeper at the Greenport Basin
Construction Co., where 1,200 to
00 people worked during the
and World War. They launched a
esweeper every 30 days and a.
ing craft every two days. Barbara
me she can remember her dad
ked there and made her a heart-
ed pendant out of a scrap piece
lexiglas they used in the yard.
ack to the Life magazine article,
Richmond, Mabel's grandson,
eves that Mabel was written up b
at one time and that is what the
t used to paint the picture of
b 11 that was shown in this column.
Rob said, "Gramma Mabel always
hated that picture!" Rob told Barbar<
that Mabel had lived in the same
farmhouse that Barbara did. They
talked of how they both remembered
Great Gramma Sade, Mabel's mother
who used to sit in the south window
of what's now the Down Home Store
in her rocking chair.
It is so important to pass on the
family and community information foi
future generations. Wouldn't it be
great if local history was taught in our
schools. The Cutchogue library and
historical society are gathering oral
histories and Hallockville Museum
has also done that. But we should fol-
low what Troy Gustayson of The
Suffolk Times did years ago when he
spent time with his grandmother in
Florida with a video camera. Take a
tape recorder or video camera and sit
with those in your family who have
been around a while and ask ques-
tions and let them tell you about what
it was like when "they were kids."
Walk around their home and soon
you'll begin to find things you never
knew before. Pull out the old family
photograph albums and let them
share some of their lives with you. I
know in our family, since the kids
were small, whenever Barbara would
say, "Oh, that reminds me" or "I
remember," they would sit back and
say, "Here comes some more history!"
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Barbara and Paul Stoutenburgh in the '50s beside their Model A.