June 06, 2002 - Finding your way in the fogThe Suffolk Times • June 6, 2002
Finding your way in
the fog
You will remember'on Memorial
Day, when you woke up, our whole
world was engulfed in that milky
vapor called "fog." It reminded me of
the many instances in my life when fog
played a big part and I'm sure the
same is true in yours as well. I can
remember once when I was over on
the south side heading for Riverhead
on the East Moriches Road and a fog
bank lay across
the road just like
FOCUS a stone wall. I
01V saw the fog bank
and slowed down
NATURE to pull off to the
by Paul side. Other cars
Stoutenburgh sped right on by
me and then all I
could hear was
the crashing and tinkling of glass as
one car after another ran into the fog
bank, lost vision and plowed into the
car ahead of it. It wasn't long before a
police car arrived and I turned around
and drove to Westhampton and went
into Riverhead that way. It was a scary
thing I can remember well.
Another not -so -scary, but more
laughable time was when I was out
sailing with my son. The southwest
wind was blowing and we were head-
ing home and a fog came up. Well, I
thought I knew where we were and wt
were going "wing on wing" with the
wind. Then, with the momentum of
that sailboat — a little comet — we
missed the channel by a mere 25 feet
and landed high and dry up on a
beach. My son to this day reminds me
of that miscalculation with a big grin
in
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Fog can
mean many
things to
many people.
Here it takes
on an almost
religious
aspect as the
sun tries to
filter through
the sleeping
world.
Times /Review
photo by Paul
Stoutenburgh
I guess fog is part of a way of life
with some people. Once when we
were up in Maine there was a road
near the water where signs read,
"Headlights required at all times."
They wanted lights on no matter what
time of day it was because the fog -
comes in so suddenly there along the
coast and they didn't want a problem
of cars crashing into each other
because of poor visibility.
-One of the scariest foggy tales that I
can remember was a time when
Barbara and I were anchored over in
Fishers Island in our 32 -foot Cape
Dory sailboat. It had been a beautiful
day's sail and we had had a lovely meal
on board and were securely anchored
for the night. The next day we headed
out, even though it was a bit overcast,
to meet friends sailing ahead of us who
wanted to catch up with them. We no
sooner got out of West Harbor when a
fog rolled in, and I mean a fog in which
you couldn't see to the bow of the
boat.
Sails came down and the little two -
cylinder diesel started up and we slow-
ly, headed east hoping to run out of the
fog. We knew we were close to Fishers
Island's notorious rocky coast because
we could hear voices nearby.
Finally we got a little anxious and
pulled up to where there was a lobster
buoy swirling in the current. This was
going to be our security and we kept
the little diesel going into the current,
always keeping that lobster buoy in
sight. We knew nothing could happen
if we stayed there and waited for the
fog to lift. And sure enough, in about
an hour — after listening to other
boats around us caught in the same sit-
uation blowing their fog horns — the
fog lifted and we found ourselves a
few hundred feet off shore. A little
scary when you don't have radar or
any of the other electronics that make
navigation much easier.
While we are on the subject of boat-
ing, I'd like to take you to a lovely
anchorage in Shelter Island called
Major's Cove. It's a great place to stay
overnight and continue your journey
e next day. We once did lust that and
the next morning we awoke to find
ourselves engulfed in fog. Lining the
railings and on the edge of the cockpit
and anyplace they could get hold were
migrating tree swallows. I remember
looking up from down below as these
dark -blue and white birds watched me
as I watched them preening them-
selves for their next day's journey
south. They were quite tame and
stayed right there as we prepared
breakfast down below. By 9 o'clock
he fog had lifted, the birds were on
heir way and we pulled anchor and
continued on our journey to the east.
Probably the most scary of all fog
adventures took place
years ago, just after I got
out of the service, when I
had the grand idea of
becoming a bush pilot up
in Alaska. The first step
was to learn how to fly, so
I took lessons at Matti -
tuck Air Base under the
GI Bill on "How to Fly" and, believe
it or not, the first plane I was in was
a seaplane. I actually got my license
on water before I did on land.
Part of the instruction is the cross -
country flight, and you had to do two
or three of these. And that wasn't lit-
erally across the country but a destina-
tion of a hundred miles or so in which
you used dead reckoning, more or less,
to find your location to land. One was
over in Connecticut, and the other one
was down the west end of Long Island,
somewhere around Jones Beach. And
so I took off merrily in my pontoon
plane and skirted the outer bank of
Long Island's south shore. I was enjoy-
ing the flight and everything seemed
to be going right until wisps of mois-
ture seemed to be building up. I was
probably flying at about 1,000 feet, but
all of a sudden these wisps turned into
a fog and I found myself in this flimsy
little plane with few instruments to
guide me completely in this whiteout
(this was 55 years ago).
I didn't know if I was going up or,
down or sideways. Of course, I had
some instruments that told me if I'was
going up or down or sideways and it
was scary at first to have to rely on
these as I flew along with nothing but
whiteness all about. This was not for
me, so I dropped down to about 500
feet and popped out of the whiteness
into a sparkling world of sunshine.
Man, that was some change in the
weather. I soon found my rendezvous,
landed without any trouble and had a
cup of coffee at the little marine air-
port. Then I took off on my journey
back home, but I can remember that
feeling of complete isolation from the
world around me. It was an experience
I'd never forget. (And as I type this: It
was an experience I've never heard
told before. — Barbara)
By the way, I learned how to fly on
1 nd n sea and just about that time
got married and other
things seemed to be more
important, so flying
seemed to dwindle away.
(The truth of the matter
is, he wanted to take me
up for a flight when I was
about 8 1/2 months preg-
nant but was told if two of
us went up, maybe three of us would
come down, and maybe I'd better not
go just then. — Barbara)
We'll leave the foggy days with one
last memory. When we first came to
this place, we had a horse called
Dusty. It was a small horse just right
for the kids to ride and Peter and
Roger enjoyed it immensely. It was a
time when there were no fences and
you could ride from one field to
another on the back roads in what we
used to think was a carefree world
that's now long since gone. But back
to Dusty. We had a foggy morning
such as we had on Memorial Day; the
sun came up and burned through the
fog and I was able to take a picture of
Dusty looking ghostlike in the fog. It's
one of the fond memories Barbara
and I both cherish, one that will prob-
ably never again be repeated.
So fog has a part to play in all our
lives. Each of us probably could go on
and on telling about our "foggy days."
It's a part of the world we live in that
makes it very interesting, not only in
the sense of excitement but in the
sense of beauty, for fog changes the
world around us, just as snow and rain
and stormy days that otherwise would
be a lot less memorable.
...a fog bank
lay across the
road just like
a stone wall.